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It's quite amazing what the respondents to that study went through and are going through before marriage.

My favorite Jesuit gave me this sage advise right before I tied the knot:

The important decision is not to get married which is a one time decision made on the wedding day.

The important decision is to stay married which is a decision made after every fight, after every mistake, after every forgotten birthday or anniversary or date, after smelling your partners' stale breath first thing in the morning, after each time one puts up the sentadera because the other forgot, after one fixes the toothpaste tube because the other didn't press from the bottom, etc.

Couples decide to stay married each and every second of each and every hour of each and every day. That's where the real hard work is. And dare I say, that's where the fun truly is.

i do not have a perfect family nor a very smooth relation with my wife, children & apos... neither am i a marriage councilor... but here is my take...

what confused me about the study was the worries those men inculcated in their brains wherein they have not been into it. bakit sila takot sa di nila alam? maybe they read or listened too much of others' experiences and believed these as an absolute pattern. what relationship do they expect? a computer-like thing where everything falls onto its proper place as expected and commanded upon a click or push of a button? oh my!! humans are NOT cold and apathetic unlike electronic chips... humans are not robots, nor mathematical equations with very predictable results every time...


whenever younger gen ask me about marriage, i always tell them "it is very very easy to start a relation, very hard to maintain... do not believe the word COMPATIBLE as there is NO such thing in marriage... adjusting to your partner from moment to moment is what makes you compatible to each other" quarrels, shouting episodes, soft talk... these are all forms of communications and very good ones if we make sure it ends up with very positive results oh yes, very difficult to do i must agree... some of the best medicines are 1a) a set of listening ears 1b) constant communication 2) a loving heart 3) humility overpowering destructive pride.

best regards,
fer

rtsyrtsy wrote:It's quite amazing what the respondents to that study went through and are going through before marriage.

My favorite Jesuit gave me this sage advise right before I tied the knot:

The important decision is not to get married which is a one time decision made on the wedding day.

The important decision is to stay married which is a decision made after every fight, after every mistake, after every forgotten birthday or anniversary or date, after smelling your partners' stale breath first thing in the morning, after each time one puts up the sentadera because the other forgot, after one fixes the toothpaste tube because the other didn't press from the bottom, etc.

Couples decide to stay married each and every second of each and every hour of each and every day. That's where the real hard work is. And dare I say, that's where the fun truly is.

i agree with your input sir

bass_nut wrote:3) humility overpowering destructive pride.

My officemates say they know it very easily if I'm talking to my wife on the phone. They say that I just rattle off a long series of "yes," "I agree," "you are right," "OK," "go for it," and other phrases indicating agreement.

That's a man's job. Men should say yes to anything women say even if what women say is wrong.

There is great joy in just waiting for women to realize they made a mistake then men say "I told you so" albeit only very softly so no one else hears.

rtsyrtsy wrote:
Couples decide to stay married each and every second of each and every hour of each and every day. That's where the real hard work is. And dare I say, that's where the fun truly is.

yes russ, especially if you have kids, where the real joy is.

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whenever younger gen ask me about marriage, i always tell them "it is very very easy to start a relation, very hard to maintain...

uh-oh,..we're scaring the gen-x on this, doc, lol

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whenever younger gen ask me about marriage, i always tell them "it is very very easy to start a relation, very hard to maintain...

uh-oh,..we're scaring the gen-x on this, doc, lol[/quote]


actually i encourage them to "not fear" marriage... they have a misconception of looking & looking for their perfect partner in life who does not exist as there is NONE... i told them their girlfriend (yung tunay ) is a potential wife as long as both can accept each other's negative & positive traits, can adjust to each other's differences and are willing to stay together forever for each other thru thick & thins

during the "steady period" i encourage them to act their normal selves as this is the exploratory & discovery stage... to never step the best foot only... to always show what & who they really are... to study what they can be capable of doing in case "rainy days" occur... to focus & prioritize on family & kids forever...

i also encourage them to be monogamous for life

yes, very difficult advices... but do-able sacrifices have priceless rewards at the end of the road... like having a bright colourful rainbow after the end of each storm...

naku, i am now sounding like a marriage councilor eh i am not a perfect family man myself

this is getting to be a very interesting thread... to be honest, i am -relearning and learning more from you guys as well...

have a bright day mga kapatid
fer

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WARNING: Dont you ever try to watch it, if your Heart is weak.

This is the real one, and they are everywhere.

Natawa ako dito !!!
Common sa akin "Yes", "Ok" and "go for it"

rtsyrtsy wrote:

bass_nut wrote:3) humility overpowering destructive pride.

My officemates say they know it very easily if I'm talking to my wife on the phone. They say that I just rattle off a long series of "yes," "I agree," "you are right," "OK," "go for it," and other phrases indicating agreement.

That's a man's job. Men should say yes to anything women say even if what women say is wrong.

There is great joy in just waiting for women to realize they made a mistake then men say "I told you so" albeit only very softly so no one else hears.

Dont do this at home,.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JvfUMdiBH5w

Froch, the WBC title holder will be expose by Abraham in Finland tonight.
This is the most awaited fight of the Super Six Middleweight Tournament.

Abraham all the way. If there's a KO, thats a bonus for Abraham.

I lost 50 bucks, Abraham was flat-footed and scared. He's relying and looking for a one big punch that never came out.
too bad.

(But I won $75 w/ Marquez against Katsidis. Ganansiya pa rin ng $25, pang yosi, ,..)

From superfly (115#) to bantamweight (118#), Donaire (24-1-16KO) will be good at this weight. Sydorenko maybe a bit bulkier at weigh-in and on fight night, but we're sure Donaire will showcase his power.

Sydorenko (22-2-7) is a good boxer w/ good footwork but less power to hurt Donaire. Nonito will try to find a way to KO Sydorenko, to impress the promoters and viewers, so to land his biggest fight against the WBO/WBC Bantamweight champ Montiel this coming February.

3 pounds heavier for Nonito is really a good one, and im expecting a TKO inside 10 rounds.

pinoy_usa8 wrote:From superfly (115#) to bantamweight (118#), Donaire (24-1-16KO) will be good at this weight. Sydorenko maybe a bit bulkier at weigh-in and on fight night, but we're sure Donaire will showcase his power.

Sydorenko (22-2-7) is a good boxer w/ good footwork but less power to hurt Donaire. Nonito will try to find a way to KO Sydorenko, to impress the promoters and viewers, so to land his biggest fight against the WBO/WBC Bantamweight champ Montiel this coming February.

3 pounds heavier for Nonito is really a good one, and im expecting a TKO inside 10 rounds.

Live stream: (Donaire vs Sydorenko), starts at 9:30 to 10:00 Manila Time

http://mannypacquiaolivestream.blogspot.com/

http://liveboxingstreams.blogspot.com/2 ... renko.html

this one. one more fight before the main event, Donaire

http://ufcandboxing.blogspot.com/2010/1 ... dimir.html

First round pa lang,..nakaka awa na. Mismatch.

he got the power sa new weight niya (118#) ha.
(3 knockdowns, until 4th round KO?)

Montiel you're next !!

Grabe talaga power ni Donaire , thats why his fight's don't go the distance.

Galing! No doubt. Montiel worry now!

Is Donaire better than Manny?

Yes, in terms of not being hit w/ a descent power. Nonito's hard to hit, he's got good defense, but havent tested his chin yet.

While Manny's best defense is offense. He's fearless, armoured w/ a granite chin and a warrior w/ a thundering power in both fist. His kind comes once in a 100 years or not even?

Manny is a diff fighter today than before when he was superfly and bantam.

REPLAY:

http://boxingreplays.blogspot.com/

http://boxingonyoutube.blogspot.com/201 ... renko.html

pinoy_usa8 wrote:Is Donaire better than Manny?

Donaire is one excellent boxer right in path to greatness. But Manny is a beast in a different league and has proven beyond reproach.
Good for us, after Manny retires from the ring we still have Nonito to cheer on. Judging today's performance, Montiel's days are numbered. With his great training team headed by Robert Garcia, how I wish Nonito moves to lightweight sooner( that is if he can bring that power and speed) where the real big fights, great talents, and big pays are.

It seems Pacquiao-Mosley fight is in the pipeline? I have high regards for Mosley ( after KOing Margarito I thought then he's still at prime and better than Cotto or Mayweather), but the father age showed in his last two fights. I agree with Alex Arriza, Manny may need not train hard for a Mosley fight coz he's a quitter. Economics aside, this fight doesn't make sense. However, for some , since Pacquiao-Mayweather being far from reality, this fight is a measure of who is truly better between Pac and Floyd, the latter having defeated Mosley by UD. Aside from this, nothing is left commercially viable for Manny in the next six months. Berto won't dare for an abbreviated career; not wise to feed a lucrative retirement package for a third fight the overzealous, bitter and boastful Marquez, and both fights won't cash in the gates and PPV anyway.